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“Feeling off lately? It might not be you.”
As the days get shorter, your mood might too. Here are 4 ways to take care of yourself this month — body, mind, and spirit.

🌿 The Season of Checking In
My desk sits right by the window.
I tell myself it’s for the sunlight — but honestly, it’s also because I’m nosy.
I like watching my neighbors walk their dogs, unload groceries, and occasionally argue about parking spots.
But lately, I’ve noticed something: the light doesn’t last as long.
By late afternoon, the room feels dimmer, heavier.
And since I work from home most days, I can go hours without stepping outside.
If you’ve been feeling slower, foggier, or just off, I get it.
It’s not all in your head — it’s in your body, too.
Here’s the short version:
☁️ Less sunlight = less serotonin
🌙 Less light in the morning = more melatonin (aka the “stay in bed” hormone)
📱 Cooler weather = less movement, more scrolling
Translation: you’re not lazy, unmotivated, or falling behind.
You’re adjusting.
And your body just needs a little help syncing back up.
Here’s how ↓
☀️ 1. Get Morning Light
Your body’s clock needs light to know it’s daytime — without it, everything drifts.
Even 10 minutes outside (yes, even on cloudy days) can reset your mood, focus, and sleep cycle.
Try this:
• Step outside within 30–60 minutes of waking.
• Get at least 10 minutes of natural light (no sunglasses if possible).
• If mornings are dark, try a light therapy lamp (10 000 lux).
• Ask your doctor about a Vitamin D supplement if you work indoors most days.
🧠 Why it matters: light hitting your eyes tells your brain’s master clock, “We’re awake, it’s safe to function.”
💪🏽 2. Move Gently, Not Perfectly
When motivation drops, movement feels harder — but staying still keeps you stuck.
You don’t need intensity; you need rhythm.
Try this:
• Stretch between calls.
• Walk while listening to a podcast.
• Dance while dinner cooks.
Each small movement tells your nervous system, “We’re safe to move again.”
😴 3. Protect Your Sleep Window
When the sun sets earlier, melatonin releases sooner — that’s why you get sleepy at 8 PM and wired again at midnight.
Try this:
• Set a wind-down alarm as your cue to dim the lights.
• Avoid caffeine after 2 PM.
• Let rest be part of your routine, not a reward.
🧠 Why it matters: sleep is your brain’s emotional rinse cycle — it clears stress hormones and resets your mood overnight.
🩺 4. Schedule a Maintenance Check-In
If you’ve felt “off” for more than a few weeks, get some data.
Book your physical. Ask about Vitamin D, thyroid, and iron levels.
Preventive care isn’t fear; it’s maintenance.
You change the oil in your car — your body deserves the same attention.
🕯️ By the Fire Pit
This season isn’t asking you to fix yourself — it’s asking you to listen.
You don’t need a big overhaul.
Just small, steady cues: light, movement, rest, maintenance.
If you forget tomorrow, start again the next day.
That’s the beauty of rhythm. 💛
🕊️ Gentle Reminder
You’re not behind — you’re recalibrating.
You don’t have to chase motivation; you can create conditions for it to return.
Start with one step.
The light will follow.
Read this week’s On the Mend with Moya — or forward it to a friend who’s been saying,
“I don’t know why I’m so tired lately.”
Because sometimes, it’s not her.
It’s the season. 🌤️
Until Next week
Moya
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